Major Depressive Disorder: The Diagnosis in Numbers, the Treatment Timeline and the Insomnia Problem

Depression is diagnosed on a list, and knowing the list is useful, because the gap between feeling low and meeting the criteria is where a great many people sit undecided for months.
📋 What is actually required. At least five of the following nine, present most of the day, nearly every day, for at least two weeks, and at least one of them has to be the first or the second.
1. Depressed mood · 2. Loss of interest or pleasure in almost everything · 3. Significant change in appetite or weight · 4. Insomnia or sleeping too much · 5. Agitation, or being visibly slowed down · 6. Fatigue or loss of energy · 7. Worthlessness or excessive guilt · 8. Reduced concentration or indecisiveness · 9. Recurrent thoughts of death, or thoughts of suicide
And it has to cause real difficulty at work, at home or socially, and not be explained by another condition or a substance.
Notice how much of that list is physical. Four of the nine items are body symptoms, which is why a large share of people with depression present to a doctor complaining of exhaustion, poor sleep, weight loss or unexplained aches, and never mention mood at all.
📊 The number that tracks it: PHQ-9
Nine questions, each scored 0 to 3 for how often it has been a problem over the past two weeks, total out of 27. It is used everywhere and it is worth scoring yourself, because the figure is far more useful than trying to recall last month.
| Score | Band | What usually follows |
|---|---|---|
| 1 to 4 | Minimal | No treatment indicated |
| 5 to 9 | Mild | Watchful waiting, self-help, exercise, review |
| 10 to 14 | Moderate | The usual treatment threshold — psychological therapy, medication, or both |
| 15 to 19 | Moderately severe | Medication and therapy together |
| 20 to 27 | Severe | Active treatment, close review, specialist input |
Question nine is scored separately in practice. Any answer above zero to the item about thoughts of death or self-harm prompts a direct conversation regardless of the total, and a low total with a positive item nine is not a reassuring result.
Repeating the score every two to four weeks during treatment is the single best way to tell whether something is working, because depression distorts memory of how bad things were.
🩺 What gets ruled out first
Several conditions produce the same picture, and two of them change the treatment completely rather than slightly.
| Condition | The clue |
|---|---|
| Underactive thyroid | Cold, constipated, dry skin, weight gain, slowed thinking. A blood test, and treating it resolves the mood |
| Low B12, low iron, low vitamin D | Where fatigue and poor concentration dominate. Cheap to check and occasionally the whole answer |
| Sleep apnea | Snoring, breathing pauses, waking unrefreshed, morning headache. Chronic sleep fragmentation produces a depression-shaped syndrome — see our guide to obstructive sleep apnea |
| Alcohol | Both a cause and a consequence. Depression that does not improve while drinking continues usually needs the drinking addressed first |
| Medicines | Steroids, interferon, some hormonal treatments, beta blockers in some people, and withdrawal from stimulants |
| Depression that looks like dementia | In older people, severe depression can present as memory failure and confusion and be mistaken for early dementia. It is treatable and the distinction matters enormously — covered in our article on depressive pseudodementia |
⚠️ Bipolar disorder has to be asked about before an antidepressant is started, and frequently is not.
In bipolar depression, an antidepressant given on its own can trigger a switch into mania or make the illness more unstable over time. The treatment is a mood stabiliser, which is a different plan entirely.
The questions worth answering honestly: has there ever been a period of a few days or more of unusually high or irritable mood, needing much less sleep than normal without feeling tired, talking faster than usual, racing thoughts, uncharacteristic spending or risk-taking, or other people commenting that you were not yourself? Also: did a previous antidepressant make you feel wired, agitated or unable to sleep rather than better? And is there bipolar disorder in the family?
A yes to any of those belongs in the conversation before the first prescription, not after the third.
🚨 Safety, said plainly
Thoughts of death or of not wanting to be here are a symptom of the illness rather than a character failure, and they are extremely common in depression. They are also treatable, and they pass as the depression lifts.
- 📞 Thoughts of harming yourself, or of not wanting to go on, mean contacting a doctor or emergency service the same day. Not next week, not at the routine appointment
- 🗣️ Tell one person. The single thing that most changes outcomes is not being alone with it. Being asked about suicidal thoughts does not plant them, and being able to say it out loud reduces their pressure
- 🔒 Reduce access to means. Ask someone to hold medication, firearms or anything else kept for that purpose. This sounds extreme and it is one of the best-evidenced suicide prevention measures there is, because the acute crisis is usually short
- 📝 Write a safety plan while things are calmer — your warning signs, three things that help, three people to contact, and the emergency number — and keep it where you will find it
- ⚠️ The first few weeks of treatment carry a particular risk, especially under 25. Energy and agitation can improve before hopelessness does. Any increase in agitation, restlessness or suicidal thinking after starting or changing a dose needs reporting immediately
- 🍷 Alcohol and depression together raise the risk sharply, because it removes the brake at exactly the wrong moment
⏳ The timeline that decides whether treatment works
More people stop antidepressants because of unmet expectations than because of side effects. The shape of the response is predictable, and knowing it in advance is close to being part of the treatment.
| When | What to expect |
|---|---|
| Days 1 to 14 | No benefit, and possibly feeling worse — nausea, headache, more anxiety, disturbed sleep. This is the window in which most people give up, and it is temporary |
| Weeks 2 to 4 | Sleep, appetite and energy improve first. Mood lags behind. Other people often notice before you do |
| Weeks 4 to 6 | Mood and interest begin to shift. This is the earliest point at which the drug can fairly be judged |
| Weeks 6 to 12 | Full effect. If there is partial improvement at six weeks, continuing or increasing often completes it |
Two practical consequences. A dose should not be abandoned before four weeks unless side effects are intolerable. And side effects usually arrive before benefit, which makes the first fortnight feel like evidence of failure when it is nothing of the kind.
💊 Choosing by what the depression looks like
All the standard antidepressants have broadly similar average effectiveness. What differs is the side effect profile, and that is what the choice is actually made on — matched against the symptoms that are causing the most trouble.
| Main problem | Reasonable choice | Why |
|---|---|---|
| Cannot sleep, not eating, losing weight | Remeron (Mirtazapine) | Sedating and appetite-stimulating, so the two worst symptoms become the reason to choose it rather than problems to manage separately |
| Anxiety prominent alongside | Sertafine (Sertraline), Lexapro (Escitalopram) | Well tolerated, licensed in anxiety disorders too. Start at half dose — see our guide to generalized anxiety |
| Exhausted, flat, no motivation | Wellbutrin (Bupropion) | Activating rather than sedating, no weight gain, no sexual side effects. Avoid with a seizure history or an eating disorder, and it can worsen anxiety |
| Chronic pain alongside | Cymbalta (Duloxetine) | Treats both, with licensed pain indications |
| Sexual side effects unacceptable | Mirtazapine or bupropion | Both have markedly less of this than the SSRIs, which is a leading reason people stop |
| Insomnia as the dominant complaint | Desyrel (Trazodone) | Used at low dose for sleep and at higher dose as an antidepressant |
| A previous relative responded well to a particular drug | That one | Family response is a genuinely useful and underused guide |
The range is in the antidepressants category, and the broader overview of major depression is in our guide to understanding major depressive disorder.
🌙 Mirtazapine, and the dosing quirk nobody expects
Remeron (Mirtazapine) works differently from the SSRIs, and its side effects are the point rather than the price. For someone who is not sleeping and has stopped eating, a drug that restores both in the first week buys the time the mood effect needs.
- 🔹 Start 15 mg at bedtime. Increase at one to two week intervals to a usual 30 mg, and up to 45 mg daily
- 😴 Sleep improves in the first few nights, long before any mood change. Appetite returns early too
- 🙃 The counterintuitive part: 15 mg is often more sedating than 30 mg. At low dose the antihistamine effect dominates; at higher doses other effects offset it. Someone flattened by grogginess on 15 mg may feel better on 30 mg rather than worse, which is the opposite of the usual instinct to cut down
- 🍽️ Expect increased appetite and weight gain. Helpful when weight has been lost, a genuine drawback otherwise, and worth deciding about in advance rather than discovering
- ✅ Low rates of sexual side effects, which is one of its main advantages over the SSRIs
- 🚫 Not with an MAOI, and sedation is compounded considerably by alcohol
- 🦵 It can worsen restless legs in some people
⚠️ One rare but serious effect worth knowing by name. Mirtazapine can very occasionally suppress white cell production. Fever, sore throat, mouth ulcers or flu-like illness in the first weeks needs an urgent blood count rather than being treated as a passing virus. It is uncommon and it is the reason to mention any such illness promptly.
🔄 If it has not worked
Roughly a third to a half of people do not respond adequately to the first antidepressant, which is normal rather than ominous. The sequence is defined.
- 🔍 Check it was a fair trial — adequate dose, taken consistently, for at least four to six weeks. A great many apparent failures are under-dosed or intermittently taken
- 🔎 Re-examine the diagnosis — unrecognised bipolar disorder, ongoing alcohol use, untreated sleep apnea, an underactive thyroid, or persistent ADHD-type difficulty
- ⬆️ Increase the dose where there has been partial response and tolerance is good
- 🔁 Switch — within the same class or to a different one. Failing one SSRI does not predict failing another
- ➕ Augment — adding a second agent, which is specialist territory. Lithium is one of the better-evidenced additions and is also the only treatment with direct evidence for reducing suicide risk
- 🏥 Specialist referral after two adequate trials have failed, where other treatments exist
And throughout: psychological therapy added to medication outperforms either alone, and the advantage grows after treatment stops, because the skills remain.
📅 How long to stay on it
This is where relapse is created, by stopping as soon as things feel normal — which is the point at which the treatment has just started working rather than finished.
- 📌 At least six to twelve months after feeling fully well, at the same dose that produced the improvement. Not a reduced maintenance dose
- 📌 Two years or longer after two or more episodes, after a severe episode, or where there are ongoing risk factors
- 📉 Stopping is done by tapering over weeks to months, never abruptly. Discontinuation symptoms — dizziness, electric-shock sensations, nausea, irritability, vivid dreams — are commonly mistaken for relapse, and they are worst with paroxetine and venlafaxine
- 📝 Write down what the start of an episode looked like for you while you are well. Early relapse is far easier to treat than a full one, and the early signs are specific to each person and forgotten quickly
🏃 The non-drug part, with the evidence attached
These get called lifestyle advice and two of them have effects that stand comparison with medication in mild to moderate depression.
- 🏋️ Aerobic exercise — around 30 minutes of moderate activity three to five times a week. The effect is substantial and dose-related. The catch is that depression removes the motivation to do the thing that helps, so this works when it is scheduled with someone else rather than left to willpower
- 📅 Behavioural activation — deliberately scheduling activities that used to matter, before wanting to do them. Depression inverts the usual order: in depression, action comes before motivation, not after. Simple, well-evidenced, and the opposite of waiting to feel ready
- 🛏️ Treat the insomnia as its own problem. Cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia improves depression as well as sleep, and sleep deprivation maintains low mood directly
- 🍷 Reduce alcohol — it reliably worsens mood at a delay of hours, disrupts sleep architecture, and interacts with the treatment
- ☀️ Light therapy in the morning, where there is a clear seasonal pattern
- 👥 Contact with people, including when it is the last thing you want. Withdrawal is both a symptom and an accelerator
📞 When to seek help
Same day:
- Thoughts of suicide or self-harm, a plan, or feeling unable to keep yourself safe
- New or increased agitation, restlessness or suicidal thinking after starting or changing an antidepressant, particularly under 25
- Not eating or drinking, or unable to care for yourself or dependants
- Hearing voices, or beliefs that others would find impossible
- Fever, sore throat or mouth ulcers in the first weeks of mirtazapine — urgent blood count
- Feeling unusually high, wired, or not needing sleep after starting an antidepressant — possible switch into mania
Promptly:
- A PHQ-9 score of 10 or more, or two weeks or more of low mood with loss of interest
- Exhaustion, poor sleep or weight loss with no explanation — ask for thyroid function, full blood count, B12, iron and vitamin D
- Any history of a high or irritable period, or bipolar disorder in the family, before starting treatment
- No improvement at all after four to six weeks at a proper dose — the plan needs changing, not extending
- Drinking to cope, which caps whatever else is tried
- Wanting to stop medication — so it can be tapered rather than stopped
- Memory and confusion in an older person with low mood — this may be treatable depression rather than dementia
❓ Frequently asked questions
What is the difference between depression and feeling low?
Five of nine listed symptoms, present most of the day nearly every day for at least two weeks, with one being depressed mood or loss of interest, and causing real difficulty in daily life. Four of the nine are physical symptoms rather than mood.
What does my PHQ-9 score mean?
Out of 27: 1 to 4 minimal, 5 to 9 mild, 10 to 14 moderate, 15 to 19 moderately severe, 20 to 27 severe. Ten is the usual treatment threshold. Any positive answer to the question about thoughts of death matters regardless of the total.
How long do antidepressants take to work?
Nothing in the first two weeks, and possibly feeling worse. Sleep, appetite and energy improve at two to four weeks, mood at four to six, full effect at six to twelve. Side effects arrive before benefit, which is why most people who give up do so too early.
Which antidepressant is best if I cannot sleep and have no appetite?
Mirtazapine is commonly chosen, because it is sedating and increases appetite, so the two worst symptoms become the reason to pick it. Trazodone is another option where insomnia dominates.
What is the mirtazapine dose?
15 mg at bedtime to start, increasing at one to two week intervals to a usual 30 mg and up to 45 mg daily. Unusually, 15 mg is often more sedating than 30 mg, so grogginess sometimes improves on a higher dose rather than a lower one.
Why does bipolar disorder need ruling out first?
In bipolar depression an antidepressant alone can trigger a switch into mania or destabilise the illness. Any past period of unusually high or irritable mood with reduced need for sleep, or a family history, belongs in the conversation before the first prescription.
What should be tested before treating depression?
Thyroid function, full blood count, B12, iron and vitamin D, plus an honest look at alcohol, sleep apnea and any medication that can lower mood. In older people, severe depression can present as memory failure and be mistaken for dementia.
How long should I stay on an antidepressant?
At least six to twelve months after feeling fully well, at the dose that produced the improvement. Two years or longer after two or more episodes. Stopping is done by tapering over weeks to months, never abruptly.
My first antidepressant did not help. Does that mean nothing will?
No. A third to a half do not respond adequately to the first one, and failing one does not predict failing another. First check it was a fair trial at an adequate dose for four to six weeks, then increase, switch or augment.
Does exercise really help depression?
Yes, with a substantial and dose-related effect in mild to moderate depression. The difficulty is that depression removes the motivation for it, which is why scheduling it with another person works better than relying on willpower.
📑 Sources and editorial
- Diagnostic criteria for major depressive disorder, including the nine-symptom list and the two-week duration requirement
- Validation studies of the PHQ-9 and its severity bands, and guidance on the handling of item nine
- National and international guidance on the treatment of depression in adults, including severity-matched stepped care, continuation treatment duration and relapse prevention
- Network meta-analyses of antidepressant efficacy and acceptability, and reviews of onset of action and time to response
- Prescribing information for mirtazapine, including dosing, sedation at low versus higher doses, weight gain, and the warning on blood dyscrasias
- Prescribing information for sertraline, escitalopram, bupropion, duloxetine, trazodone and lithium, and reviews of antidepressant discontinuation symptoms
- Evidence on antidepressant-associated switch to mania in unrecognised bipolar disorder, and on bipolar screening before treatment
- Reviews of means restriction and safety planning in suicide prevention, and of lithium and suicide risk reduction
- Meta-analyses of exercise and of behavioural activation in depression, and of cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia on depressive outcomes
- Reviews of thyroid disease, vitamin deficiency, obstructive sleep apnea and depressive pseudodementia presenting as depression
- Related reading: understanding major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, depressive pseudodementia, obstructive sleep apnea
- Related products: Remeron (Mirtazapine), Sertafine (Sertraline), Wellbutrin (Bupropion), Desyrel (Trazodone), Cymbalta (Duloxetine), antidepressants category
- RXshop Editorial Team — reviewed by Thomas Walsh, MD — Psychiatrist & Mental Health Specialist
Medical Disclaimer: The information in this article is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek guidance from a qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition, and before starting, stopping or changing any medication.